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When scientists study people on their deathbed and how they feel about their lives, they usually find that many of them feel some serious regrets.

So this mr a post about path-making. The idea is that reasoning from first principles is reasoning like a scientist. You take core facts and observations and use them to puzzle together a conclusion, kind of like a chef playing around with raw ingredients to try to make them into something good. By doing this puzzling, a chef eventually writes a new recipe.

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So in my case, fashion is a perfect part of life to use a reasoning shortcut and be a cook. Career-path-carving is definitely one of those really really deeply important things.

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All lives make a large impact on the world and on the future—but the kind of impact you end up making is largely within your control, depending on the values you live by and the places you direct your energy. Whatever shape your career path ends up taking, the world will be altered by it.

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These are people who feel indecisive about their career path.

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Other people will see a nice clear arrow representing a direction they feel confident is right—but find their legs walking in a different direction. Was it really me?

Extremely fair question. This framework has worked really well for me, so I think it can probably be helpful for other people too.

From first principles. At its core is a simple Venn diagram.

The first part of the diagram is the Want Box, which contains all the careers you find desirable. The second part of the diagram is the Reality Box.

The Reality Box Any older want to pick me up for the set of all careers that are realistic to potentially achieve—based on a comparison, in each case, between your level of potential in an area and the general difficulty of achieving success in that area.

The overlapping area contains your optimal career path choices—the set of arrows you should consider drawing on wantt Career Map. We can call it the Option Pool. This is straightforward enough. But actually filling in these boxes accurately is way harder than it looks.

For the diagram to work, it has to be as close to the truth as possible, and to get there, we have to lift up the hood of our subconscious and head down. The hard thing about the Want Box is that you want a bunch of different things—or, rather, there are a bunch of different sides of you, and each of them wants—and fears—its own stuff.

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The parts of you on the moral tentacle look around and see a big world that needs so much fixing; they see billions of people no less worthy than you of a good life who just happened to be born into inferior circumstances; they see an uncertain future ahead that hangs in the balance between utopia and dystopia for life on Earth—a future we can actually push in the right direction if we could only get our other tentacles out of our way.

While the other tentacles fantasize about what you would do with your life if you had a billion dollars in the bank, the moral tentacle fantasizes about the kind of impact you could make if you had a billion dollars to deploy.

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